Dec 25, 2013


In Finland, 5-7 years is (was at the time) the average waiting time in international adoption, for domestic adoption it is even longer. I would love to know if it is about the same in your country? 

Nov 26, 2013

Oh no… It's Christmas!

This is one of those drawings that are not easy for me to post. I know all the cards we received over the years were not meant to hurt me (even though they did), and I do not mean to hurt back. Still, a lot of hearts are aching at Christmas and I wish more people would understand that. This was and is my way of spreading the word.

Nov 18, 2013

I will miss you

I drew this to a friend I met through a stillbirth discussion board. Even if we had very similar IF journeys and shared the hardest years, we still had a hard time facing each others pregnancies - she mine before I miscarried, me hers after that. 

Nov 6, 2013

The chicken or the egg?

Sometimes I wonder if she ever realized why I stopped seeing her. Probably not.

Sep 24, 2013

Miraculously simple

After all your comments on my last post (thank you for each and every one of them!) I know for sure: the theme of this drawing is not unfamiliar to you. Must give a sarcasm warning though!

Sep 20, 2013

Friendly advice

The September ICLW eve, my second time around - welcome to my blog!
This post is drawn from my dear friend's IF journey. What is the most irrational fertility advice you have ever gotten?

Aug 24, 2013


Sometimes the most trivial things start to feel impossible...

Aug 15, 2013


I have been asked, many many times, how my penguins came to life. The answer is simple: there was this feeling, a pen and some paper. And drawing became my way out. "Sorrow" I did a week after our second miscarriage.