Feb 20, 2014

The lost

Something I drew for my friend for Mother's day - my (embryo) butterflies. I still think of my lost little ones every time I see one.

Dec 25, 2013


In Finland, 5-7 years is (was at the time) the average waiting time in international adoption, for domestic adoption it is even longer. I would love to know if it is about the same in your country? 

Nov 26, 2013

Oh no… It's Christmas!

This is one of those drawings that are not easy for me to post. I know all the cards we received over the years were not meant to hurt me (even though they did), and I do not mean to hurt back. Still, a lot of hearts are aching at Christmas and I wish more people would understand that. This was and is my way of spreading the word.

Nov 18, 2013

I will miss you

I drew this to a friend I met through a stillbirth discussion board. Even if we had very similar IF journeys and shared the hardest years, we still had a hard time facing each others pregnancies - she mine before I miscarried, me hers after that. 

Nov 6, 2013

The chicken or the egg?

Sometimes I wonder if she ever realized why I stopped seeing her. Probably not.